APPRICIATED BUT PRACTICALLY NEED LOT OF CHANGES IN OUR KAYAL AS PER THE COMMENTS posted byMOHIDEEN ABDUL KADER (ABUDHABI)[18 November 2010] IP: 195.*.*.* United Arab Emirates | Comment Reference Number: 1038
Assalamu Alaikkum.varah.
Realy this documentery has to be appriciated and thanks to SUN TV & who one took the steps for kayal prouds on the AIR.
At the same time, I wanted to share my feelings to our community. Please every one think practically and take proper measure as per the comments
1.As per the MR. VELKUMAR AUDIO is there any GROOM [mapillai] have Pressure to give house for bride [ponnu]No & never... Unfortunately every bride have a pressure to give or keep house. This is huge obstacle for bride wedlock in kayal, if we fallow as per his comments it will be highly appriciated.
2.I am realy proud because kayal have no police station, But Is any muhalla or jamath [palli vattam or sungam] have power to solve like family problems completly [THALAK, FAILING OF MONTHLY MAINTANENCE by groom in several family]
In our kayal no more proper committee to solve or even give family councilling. Most of the time issuing unjudgement result like kattapanjayath. Particulerly in the Thalak cases, we no need to worry to full fill the judgement from alim or jamath. Because after judgement no one going to recheck or fallow whether given judgements are obeyed or not. Very bad thing is imediately Grooms are getting sold and Alims are arranging nikkah to one who unfill or not care of the judgement.
Is any jamath or muhalla have power to stop or take legal action on wronger. no and nomore because no one wanted to receive family problem and not show there intrest, because at any point some one will be there family relation. some of Occasion some Alims are not care of bride side and there children's future on judgement. They care more to release the groom from marraige relationship if they receive any Thalak cases. Also they [Alim or Thalak committee] don't have knowledge to solve family issues.
now a days,Due to this condition most of the families are enter to police station and court.
TO PREVENT & PROTECT OUR KAYAL CULTURE, MUST ALL JAMATH AND SOCIETY NEED TO FORM JUDICERY TEAM WITH FULL KNOWELEDGE OF SARIYA AND VERY BELEVABLE PERSION EVEN HE IS A POOR NOT A MATTER MUST BE HONEST AND POWERFULL COMMITTEE.
Also Muhalla will give attention for family issue otherwise acording to this conditon POLICE STATION will come soon. Allah will save our kayal from this bad incident.
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